Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Assignment 8 "Self-Value"

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Jealousy is the fear of your loved one wanting you less.You need to value your self and the things you have. Like Jeniffer James quotation "Jealousy is simply and clearly the fear that you do not have value. Jealousy scans for evidence to prove the point - that others will be preferred and rewarded more than you. There is only one alternative - self-value. If you cannot love yourself, you will not believe that you are loved. You will always think it's a mistake or luck. Take your eyes off others and turn the scanner within. Find the seeds of your jealousy, clear the old voices and experiences. Put all the energy into building your personal and emotional security. Then you will be the one others envy, and you can remember the pain and reach out to them." I agree with Jeniffer that if you don't love yourself you don't think that anyone else loves you. But the reality is that jealousy is just what you think is going on in your head but you want that person to be so up tight on you that

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